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HOW TO ATTRACT THE RIGHT MAN

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After breaking a few hearts and having my own broken too, I reached a defining moment in my life, a point when I asked myself certain questions and told myself some home truths. They say you are who you attract, am I really like some losers that have been coming around me? What is it about me that attracts these kind of unserious people? When I answered those questions honestly, I searched myself for those things that I'm not getting right and restructured my life. As a young lady with a kind heart, do you find yourself being often heartbroken?  It's true that the guys you've been with didn't have a right to treat you the way they did, but u have a part in the blame- you allowed them to. I first came in contact with my husband on the 17th of October 2015, we got engaged on the 2nd of January 2016 (in less than 3 months) and wedded 17th & 24th Dec 2016 It wasn't luck, it wasn't physical beauty. It was the application of proven principles.
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THE WAY TO A HIS HEART

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I got the inspiration for this post while making snacks. My husband makes the most perfect potato chips. Right cuts, taste and everything. It's not like I'm a bad cook, I've had the opportunity of catering to major events, I still do, but ever since meeting my Nicotine, I've been in doubt about my cooking. And the more I doubt, the more I make mistakes. I got distracted today while making potato chips and came up with this burnt offering. It led  me into deep thoughts. We were told that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, we've been schooled to think that when we prepare the sweetest of meals, he sees us as 1000 yards of wife material and keeps us. Our Nigerian mothers literally drag us into the kitchen as early as 5 years so that we won't turn into nna ga alu (married by the father). So it's in us. We try and do our best in the kitchen. But is the way to his heart really his stomach? Prov 21:1(kjv) says The king's
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WHY YOU DIDN'T SUCCEED IN 2017

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Today marks the end of 2017 and you are right back where you started -NOWHERE You're  not alone. We all began the year as every other year with so much dreams, plans, aspirations and fantasies. The previous year was probably not so fantastic and as the new year approached you had a breadth of fresh air - WOW, A FRESH START Here are some reasons  why you made no headway in 2017 and you'll probably achieve nothing come 2018 1. YOU HAD DREAMS  Dreaming is a good thing as long as you wake up early enough to work on them. Everyone wants beautiful things, good health, nice body, money in the bank, new car etc. But not everyone makes conscious plans on how to achieve them. The difference between a dream and a goal is an action plan. You failed to pen down what you wanted to achieve and how to achieve them, that's why you're stuck. Stop talking big and start doing small, baby steps eventually turn to giant strides. 2. YOU HAD NO DREAMS  You must be thinking "s
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